Did you recently welcome a new family member into your home? Are you feeling restless and anxious that you will not be able to do a good job. Well, perhaps this article would soothe you. Read on to find out more.
Firstly, you and your spouse need to relax, we understand that your stress won’t magically disappear but understand that every newbie mum and dad go through this phase. It is normal to wonder and stress about it, it only shows how much you value your little one and their wellbeing.
Secondly, prepare for the sleepless nights and cranky mornings. We want to inform you that yes, all those parents out there went through this too, and it may not all be rosy all the time but it would be worth it.
Try your best to organize and control as much as you can. Don’t worry if not.
Now that you know you organizing as much as you can, are you controlling situations to the best of your ability as there will be days you would not be able to?
You need to ensure all your essential baby items are in sight and in a place that is clean and secure, make sure that the cot and baby linen is soft and clean. Keep your atmosphere tidy and clean.
Invest in items that would aid your life and your baby’s life, in whatever way you could. As you would be in a rush to get things done making sure you are safe at all means is best. Investing in anti slip rug underlay would mean that when you are running to answer the little ones’ cry, you would not have any accidents.
Find time for yourself
As hard as it may be, you also need to find time for yourself. You would be on maternity leave if you are the mum, and perhaps your husband is with you – but try to have one method you could calm down in.
It could be a song, a few breathing exercises, reading or just going for a quick walk. this applies to both mums and dads!
Mums, take turns with certain activities such as nappy changes and reminders on feed time. Changing the little one and also bathing, this way you will both have equal bond tine with your little one and have less burdens.
It is important that you both work together as a team especially in this time in your life, it will help you both and the baby in the long run.
Dear parents, we want to advise that in this new and fulfilling journey, you are being patient. Know that your time invested with your little one will never be of waste. Think and vision your little one growing up and being able to thank you both for all the hard work and effort put in.
We wish you the best, happy parenting!